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Choosing a nursing home for—or preferably with—an aging parent can be difficult. Families may have to make the decision following a hospitalization, fall, dementia diagnosis, or sudden change in the parent’s ability to live safely at home.
However, choosing a Louisiana nursing home involves more than finding an available room. The family should evaluate the parent’s care needs, wishes, finances, legal documents, and quality of life. The following five considerations can help organize that decision.
1. What level of care does your parent actually need?
Start with the parent’s physical, cognitive, and medical needs. A physician, social worker, rehabilitation professional, or geriatric care manager may help determine whether the parent needs:
- Occasional assistance at home;
- Regular help with bathing, dressing, meals, or medication;
- Assisted living;
- Memory care;
- Short-term rehabilitation;
- Skilled nursing care; or
- Long-term nursing-facility care.
A nursing home may be appropriate for someone who needs continuous supervision, extensive help with daily activities, skilled nursing services, or care that cannot safely be provided at home.
Still, a nursing home is not the only option. Louisiana’s Office of Aging and Adult Services provides information about facility-based care and home- and community-based services. Depending on the person’s needs and available resources, alternatives may include paid caregivers, adult day care, home modifications, family support, assisted living, or a combination of services.
Families should also distinguish between a short rehabilitation stay and permanent placement. A parent recovering from surgery or hospitalization may need temporary skilled care without needing to remain in a nursing home permanently.
2. What does your parent want—and who has legal authority to decide?
An older adult does not lose decisionmaking authority simply because a child disagrees with the adult’s choices. If your parent can understand the available options and communicate a reasoned decision, your parent should remain at the center of the discussion.
Ask about:
- Preferred location;
- Proximity to family, friends, doctors, and religious communities;
- Room arrangements;
- Daily routines;
- Food preferences;
- Social and recreational activities;
- Privacy;
- Transportation;
- Pets and personal belongings; and
- The conditions under which your parent would consider moving.
If your parent cannot make or communicate the necessary decisions, determine who has legal authority to act. A family relationship alone does not automatically authorize an adult child to sign contracts, access accounts, or make health care and residential decisions for a parent.
Review any existing:
- Contract of mandate;
- Health care power of attorney;
- Living will or advance directive;
- Trust;
- Supported decisionmaking agreement; or
- Court judgment affecting decisionmaking authority.
The authority granted by a mandate depends on its language. A document that authorizes banking transactions may not necessarily grant every health care or residential-placement power the family needs.
If no adequate planning document exists and the parent lacks the necessary capacity, the family may need to consider the Louisiana interdiction process. Because interdiction removes legal rights, it should be considered only when less restrictive alternatives cannot adequately protect the parent.
3. What do the facility’s staffing and inspection records show?
A polished lobby does not necessarily indicate excellent care. Families should examine how the facility operates on ordinary days and nights.
Medicare recommends comparing facilities based on health inspections, staffing, and quality measures. Its Care Comparetool allows families to review Medicare- and Medicaid-certified nursing homes by location.
When evaluating a facility, consider:
- Recent inspection results and cited deficiencies;
- Whether serious deficiencies have been corrected;
- Nurse and nursing-assistant staffing;
- Staff turnover;
- Weekend and overnight coverage;
- Availability of physicians and nurse practitioners;
- Medication-management procedures;
- Fall-prevention practices;
- Infection-control procedures;
- Dementia training;
- Emergency and hurricane plans;
- Transportation to outside medical appointments; and
- Hospitalization and readmission patterns.
Visit more than once if time permits. An announced daytime tour may not show what happens during meals, shift changes, evenings, or weekends.
During a visit, pay attention to how staff members speak to residents. Notice whether residents appear clean, engaged, and appropriately assisted. Ask how long call lights typically remain unanswered and how the facility handles falls, behavioral changes, pressure injuries, wandering, and family complaints.
Medicare also provides a practical nursing-home checklist that families can take on facility visits.
4. What will the care cost, and what does the admission agreement require?
Before signing an admission agreement, request a written explanation of the charges. The quoted monthly rate may not include every service.
Ask whether the facility charges separately for:
- Medications;
- Therapy;
- Medical supplies;
- Transportation;
- Laundry;
- Personal-care products;
- Private rooms;
- Specialized dementia care;
- Additional staffing or supervision;
- Telephone, internet, or television service; and
- Activities or outside appointments.
Families should also understand the difference between Medicare and long-term-care funding. Medicare generally does not cover long-term custodial nursing-home care. It may cover qualifying short-term skilled nursing or rehabilitation under specific conditions, but that coverage should not be confused with payment for an indefinite nursing-home stay.
Long-term care may instead be paid through:
- The parent’s income and savings;
- Private long-term-care insurance;
- Family support;
- Veterans’ benefits, when available;
- Medicaid, if the resident meets the applicable requirements; or
- A combination of these resources.
Review any long-term-care insurance policy carefully. Confirm the elimination period, daily or monthly benefit, covered facilities, required level of impairment, inflation protection, and claims procedure.
The admission agreement deserves the same care as any other significant contract. Determine who is signing, in what legal capacity, and whether the agreement attempts to make a child or other third party personally responsible for payment.
Our article Make Long-Term Care Part of Your Estate Planning discusses private insurance, personal resources, and family support in greater detail.
5. Will the facility protect your parent’s rights and quality of life?
Safety matters, but so do dignity, autonomy, privacy, and connection to other people.
Residents of Medicare- or Medicaid-certified nursing homes have federally protected rights. The Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services explains that those protections include the right to participate in care, receive information, be treated with dignity, make complaints, maintain privacy, and remain free from abuse, neglect, discrimination, and improper restraints.
Before choosing a facility, ask about:
- Participation in care-plan meetings;
- Visitation policies;
- Access to telephone and video calls;
- Religious and cultural accommodations;
- Resident and family councils;
- Activities for residents with different physical and cognitive abilities;
- Room changes;
- Use of physical or chemical restraints;
- Grievance procedures;
- Transfer and discharge policies; and
- How the facility communicates with family members after an injury or significant change in condition.
Also ask how the facility handles personal preferences. Can residents choose when to wake, eat, bathe, or go to bed? Can they personalize their rooms? Are activities meaningful, or are they offered only to satisfy a schedule?
If a problem develops after admission, the family should document the concern and raise it through the facility’s grievance process. Louisiana’s Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program also helps nursing-home and assisted-living residents address concerns involving health, safety, welfare, and resident rights. Ombudsman services are free and confidential; the Louisiana Department of Health’s ombudsman information includes contact information.
Preparing before a crisis makes the decision easier
Families often have fewer choices when they begin this discussion during a hospital discharge or immediate safety crisis. Planning earlier provides time to visit facilities, compare contracts, review insurance, discuss the parent’s preferences, and confirm that the necessary legal documents are in place.
Field Law helps Louisiana families prepare contracts of mandate, health care planning documents, and estate plans that identify who can act if a person later needs assistance. We can also help families evaluate whether existing documents provide sufficient authority or whether additional legal action may be required.
If your family is preparing for a possible transition to long-term care, contact Field Law to review the legal and financial planning that should be addressed before the move.
